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Timsan45 Profile Information

Retired vet seeks soul mate.
Age 79 From Utica, New York - Online - Over 2 weeks ago
Man Seeking A Man

Basic Information

I Can Speak  
English
I Would Describe Myself As  
I am a bisexual senior who, while in the military 46 years ago, had an intimate relationship with an older GI; although I've gone through two marriages since then(not very happy ones, either, I might add), I never forgot the close friendship, genuine care and concern that he showed me. During the months we shared, before I left for Vietnam, we couldn't get enough of one another; even after all these years, I still remember him with a sense of love and affection. I would like to find someone like that, again; I'm tired of feeling miserable and alone, all the time. I'm a friendly, and often called funny guy, who finds stress relief in laughter and music; I do, however, have a sometimes sarcastic outlook about some things, but much of my sarcasm is light-hearted. My 'spouse' and I have been sleeping apart for eight years, now, and I haven't had a close relationship with anyone during this time--obviously "romantically challenged." I've finally concluded that a change is required to ease my loneliness; life is too short, to go on depriving myself of the joy to be had with another person. I want someone I can be close to--someone I can talk with, share a joke or movie with; someone I can be honest with about my feelings, and who will be as honest with me; someone who will enjoy being with me, holding me, and making love with me; someone who'll be glad to see me walk in the door, or climb into bed with me. Night-time is always the toughest for me, because I have been sleeping alone for so long. I want to hold someone, and have them hold me; to caress someone, and have them caress me; and, one of the things I miss most--to share a bed and bodily warmth with that someone, on cold, winter nights. If anyone out there shares these feelings, I would genuinely appreciate hearing from you. Bottom line: "I want to know what love is, once again, before it's too late."
Sign  
Virgo

Appearance & Situation

My Body Type Is  
Average
My Height Is  
5' 11 (1.8 m)
My Eyes Are  
Green
My Ethnicity Is  
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is  
Separated
I Have Kids  
Yes - At Home
I Want Kids  
No
My Best Feature Is  
Smile
Body Art  
Wouldn't Even Think About It
My Hair Is  
Grey
I Have One Or More Of These  
Cat, Dog
Willing To Relocate  
No

Status

My Education Level Is  
College Degree
My Current Employment Status Is  
Retired
My Speciality Is  
Military
My Job Title Is  
Retired military / civilian
I Make This Much In A Year  
$60,000USD To $74,999USD
I Live  
With Kid(s), With Pet(s)
At Home  
All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker  
No
I Drink  
No

Personality

Back In High School, I Was A  
Average Joe
My Social Behavior Is  
Comedic
My Interest And Hobbies Are  
Arts & Crafts, Camping, Family, Fishing / Hunting, Internet, Movies, Music, Photography, Reading, Sports, Travel, Tv
My Idea Of A Great Time Is  
Going Shopping, Going To A Concert, Reading A Book, Relaxing, Staying At Home, The Movies, Trying New Things, Tv
An Ideal First Date Would Be  
A friendly lunch (in a quiet cafe or diner), and conversation to see if we are compatible; if all goes well, we might follow this up with a relaxing drive in the country.
I've Always Wanted To Try  
Ever since my sexual affair with a married, older man, I have regretted not letting him make love to me anally; our physical contact was of an oral nature only, and, at the age of 19, I was afraid it would make me a "queer." Not only that, but he was fairly large, in size (about 9 1/2"), and I was concerned that he might injure me.
My Friends Describe Me As Being  
Friendly

Views

My Religion Is  
Christian
I Attend Services  
Once A Year
My Political Views Are  
I Don't Like Politics
My Goal In Life Is  
I've reached most of my goals; the one remaining thing I would like to do is find someone to share the abundant time I have on my hands, since my retirement. I'm tired of being alone, and would love to establish an intimate relationship again.
My Kind Of Humor Is  
Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly

Taste

On Tv, I Always Watch  
Documentaries, Dramas, Movies
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A  
Action, Comedy, Drama, Animation, Thriller
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To  
Country, Gospel, Jazz
When I Read, I Always Read  
Fiction, History, Mystery, Nature
My Idea Of Fun Is  
Anything outdoors, for the most part. Hobbies include bird watching & outdoor photography; enjoy long drives in the country, walks along secluded paths & dirt roads, and 'skinny-dipping' (when I was younger). Would like to try indoor (erotic) photography, with the right partner.

Looking for

What Do You Find Attractive?  
Boldness, Empathy, Great Skills, Humor, Intelligence, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Thoughtfullness
What Do You Look For?  
Someone with a good heart, who's honest, cheerful, friendly, compassionate, and passionate; someone to care for me and let me care for him; someone to make love with, the way I've dreamed about--for so many years, now.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?  
Internet Buddy, Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed
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