A little about me: I currently live and work in the Inland Empire of So. Cal. I'm 5'9" with 15 lbs to loose, shaved-head/goatee, and 50 years young. Love camping, movies (recently saw Avatar!), love to read and write - currently working on a novel of gay love and the military experience. Enjoy the theater as well. I'm a "Martial and Family Therapist", specializing in self-identified gay teens in the family, gays in the military, and working with gay and lesbian couples. I am sensual, romantic, intimate, affectionate, and love to cook. I'm enjoying life, but will enjoy it that much more with a decent, honorable, loving, attentive man I can come home too! Love to pamper my mate and support him in his work and in achieving his goals in life. My favorite things in the world to do are travel with my partner and explore new places and cultures. I am family-oriented and value monogamy and commitment. Love to laugh and have fun when the work is done. To find a thoughtful, attractive, romantic, loving man would be the ultimate blessing in my life.

Cancer

A Few Extra Pounds

5' 9 (1.75 m)

Brown

African American

Single

Yes - Not At Home

Not Sure

Eyes

Pierced... But Only Ear(s)

Bald

No pets

Yes

Friends Come Over Occasionally

Average Joe

Outgoing

Arts & Crafts, Sports, Reading, Learning, Music, Tv, Movies, Internet, Games, Family, Dining, Theater, Travel, Cooking, Gardening, Camping, Playing Cards, Volunteering

Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Reading A Book, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

Attend a show/concert with Dinner after!

Skiing!

Friendly

Spiritual But Not Religious

On Holidays

Middle Of The Road

To influence the betterment of the lives of my the global gay community and to have a family of my only even if it's just my life-partner and me.

Clever

Documentaries, Dramas, Movies, Sports

Action, Science Fiction, Drama, Animation

Rap, Pop, Classical, Jazz, Latin, Dance, Soul, Reggae

Anthology, Auto-biography, Biography, Business, Fiction, Health, History, Home & Garden

Travel, Entertaining friends at home, Camping, Hiking, Board Games w/ my partner, Shopping for home, Dining Out, Theater, Sporting Events, Watching Movies in Bed, Decorating for Christmas, Day at the Spa, Bookstores, Crafts, Concerts...

Intelligence, Humor, Great Skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness

A man who is confident and considerate of his partner. Passionate and grateful for his life. Likes to keep involved in his community. Values family, friends, and home life. Playful with children. Knows how to save, invest, and spend with balance! Affectionate and can "hold his own" in public. Not easily intimidated by others. Has a healthy sense of himself. Willing to take thoughtful risks! Well groomed and playful. Understands that commitment takes work and skill.

Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed